#94: The Man Who Does'nt Talk Much

Misunderstandings always happen.

Agak unfair utk judge seseorang hanya pandai post di internet tapi bila berdepan jadi pendiam. Dalam psikologi ada 2 jenis perwatakan manusia, extrovert dan introvert. Berbanggalah orang extrovert kerana perwatakan ini lebih bersikap terbuka, mesra, banyak cakap etc. Berbanggalah juga orang introvert kerana mereka ini lebih byk berfikir dengan lebih dalam walaupun kurang bercakap secara fizikal. Oleh sebab ini introverts mungkin lebih memilih utk menulis berbanding bercakap.

Introversion mengikut Wikipedia adalah "the state of or tendency toward being wholly or predominantly concerned with and interested in one's own mental life". Some popular writers have characterized introverts as people whose energy tends to expand through reflection and dwindle during interaction. This is similar to Jung's view, although he focused on mental energy rather than physical energy. Few modern conceptions make this distinction.

The common modern perception is that introverts tend to be more reserved and less outspoken in groups. They often take pleasure in solitary activities such as reading, writing, using computers, hiking and fishing. The archetypal artist, writer, sculptor, engineer, composer and inventor are all highly introverted. An introvert is likely to enjoy time spent alone and find less reward in time spent with large groups of people, though he or she may enjoy interactions with close friends. Trust is usually an issue of significance: a virtue of utmost importance to introverts is choosing a worthy companion. They prefer to concentrate on a single activity at a time and like to observe situations before they participate, especially observed in developing children and adolescents. They are more analytical before speaking. Introverts are easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation from social gatherings and engagement, introversion having even been defined by some in terms of a preference for a quiet, more minimally stimulating external environment.

Introversion is not the same thing as shyness but it is often mistaken as such by extraverts. Introverts prefer solitary to social activities, but do not fear social encounters like shy people do.